Wife to Wife Wednesday: Getting Out of the Rut

Good morning! 

Welcome to Wife to Wife Wednesday, the day that we discuss any and all issues relating to marriage. As I said in my series introduction a few weeks ago, sex is a super important part of marriage. It is an incredible gift that can be amazing... but it can also be devastating when it doesn't go well. We have talked about when Body Image impacts your sex-life and where Christians can purchase lingerie without feeling skeevy. (Yes, I said skeevy, deal with it.)

Today I want to talk about something that may make a few readers uncomfortable and it is, an intimacy app for married couples. It is designed to help get married couple out of a rut in the bedroom. This app is called Ultimate Intimacy and it is AMAZING. But, this isn't your usual sex app. As it says on the website,

Ultimate Intimacy is the product of two Christian couples on a mission to strengthen marriages by making lovemaking fun and deepening couples’ connection and intimacy.

There isn’t anything that is gross or unseemly.

You can edit your preferences in the settings. This includes things like foreplay, oral actions, and duration of each action.

The Ultimate Intimacy app allows for the users to enter their names so the instructions say “Morgan does this…” rather than being generic. You can also set a password for the app if you have older children that often use your phone. :)

There are a TON of different sexual positions and recommendation to try and the best part is that these are done with figures, not real life people. There won’t be any concern over seeing something inappropriate or that could trigger moral purity issues for a spouse.

There are a list of topics to discuss so that the intimacy isn’t just sexual, but really getting to know your spouse. There are links to articles, resources, and gifts to help build up your marriage.

Overall, I HIGHLY recommend the Ultimate Intimacy app. It is a fun way to keep the spark burning in your marriage in a God honoring way. You can download the app here for Android and here for Apple.

I should also mention that I am not an affiliate of this website.
I don't get anything from recommending it.

We tried it and enjoyed it.
I thought there might be other spouses out there that would enjoy this neat resource.